Are you or Are you going to be?

"Are you?" Or "Are you going to be?"

A big difference it is between being and wanting to be! To be means to achieve but wanting to be is only a wish that can be reached or not! To be is a proof of ability but wanting to be can be done by any one, either a successful one or just a loser! So, it's so important to ask yourself; "Am I ... ?" or "Do I wish to be ...?!"

Let's try to face this situation, yes it may lead to a kind of depression at the beginning, but it may also result in a strong will to change. Anyway; we'll lose nothing if we do.

Honestly, give your answer. Are you really successful, or you still try hard to be? That means; do you reach certain goals you already determined before, or just consider achieving some advance in your work, and deal with this normal advance as if you planned for it previously? Have you got the habit of setting goals in advance, or you just work and wait for any success to celebrate later? Do you think you reached all what reached on purpose or it was only luck that helped you to do?! If you give passive answers, are you going to change or not?

Another question that may cause you to be chocked at first, but please, be patient and don't be so. Are you human?! So chocked you are or maybe a bit furious, aren't you? That's ok. Let me explain. Every one of us is a "human" of course, but is every one "humane" as well?! That's the question in fact. To decide on the answer, check your attitude here; sure you sympathize poor and weak people, but fo still sympathize them if they come to be different from you in religion?! If you meet an extremely poor jew, for example, will you give out money to help him? Will you give a hand to a man whose ideas are totally against yours if he's in a bad need? Be brave and tell the truth while giving your answer. Again, if you give passive answers, are you going to change or not?

There are so many other similar questions that can be asked in the same way, but I just want to break the ice between you and your inner will. I would just like to encourage you to face yourself so as to ask and answer the most important questions that may change your life to the best. Never say, "It's so late!" since it isn't; you always have the choice to change. It's up to you, and only you that can make the difference. No one can make you change unless you have the will to do. Don't only "intend" or "hope" to do, but "decide" to do. Remember, "To be or not to be, that's the question".